The Hanen Centre is a nonprofit organization from Canada that helps to promote language, social and literacy skills in young children.
Here the Hanen Centre presents a great article on the stages and importance of pretend play.
The real reason I have my own business. Hint: It’s about you AND me.
Nesting parties ask us to re-think the way that we celebrate new parents and challenge us to focus on what the expecting parents need. It’s really less of a party and more of an opportunity to provide the family help.
Unlike baby showers, “Nesting parties shift the focus from stuff to support to help families prepare their homes and hearts for life with a new baby,” explains Lara Elfstrand, the pediatric sleep practitioner of Little Elf Family Services.
As the marriage apocalypse warrior (also known as the awesome, differentiating, behavior-changing ninja), I help couples to fight against behaviors that predict the end: (left to right) contempt, defensiveness, criticism, and stonewalling.
The Hanen Centre is a nonprofit organization from Canada that helps to promote language, social and literacy skills in young children.
Here the Hanen Centre presents a great article on the stages and importance of pretend play.
For more information on what executive functioning is, check out this article.
Resources from Zero To Three about how play skills develop, as well as toys and activities at different ages.
Check out this download on "The Power of Play" from Zero To Three.
Check out these links for articles from Zero To Three on play at different ages:
Learning through play: birth-12 months
Tips on playing with babies and toddlers
Children generally learn to play with blocks in a sequence.
Check out this PDF from the Montana State Library about the stages of block play.
At 17 months, this little girl is stacking and making block towers.
This video highlights all the things that this young child is learning when playing with blocks.
I also loved this quote on block play: "Unlike toys that have limited use or can be play with in only one way, open-ended toys and play-things can be used in diverse ways and with different levels of proficiency. Blocks, for example, can be used to stack, load in a wagon, build a tower, clap to music, or symbolically represent a person, vehicle, animal, or railroad track. Blocks are enjoyed differently at different ages as play behaviors and capabilities change over time. Blocks have an enduring quality essential to play that supports cognitive and language development at all ages. Think about it: Architects and engineers use blocks to create models of their proposed structures. By contrast, a wind-up mechanical or electronic toy is of little value if all one can do with it is watch it "perform," or if its use requires adult assistance" (Puckett & Black et al., 2009, p. 302).
Peekaboo is a classic game that is not only good fun but is also a great way to teach object permanence and attention skills and to potentially reduce separation anxiety.
Check out some fun examples:
Early on: Mom moves the cloth
Then baby moves the cloth.
Fun with patterns: This grandma is teaching beginning patterns by popping out from one side to the other.
Ask children get more skilled with peekaboo, they can start to play Hide and Seek!
The classic video from the Gottman Institute about family play. This video changed the way that I think about family play.
Enjoy this video about play courtesy of Daniel Tiger or Mr. Rogers.
This month is going to be awesome! So far I:
Looking forward to more of this!!!
Watch this story of how one man was impacted by adding more play into his life. This is the essence of the Play Challenge.
In November 2017, we focused on increasing positive interactions in our relationships and decreasing negatives. For December, we are going to take that one step further and focus on play. The December Play Challenge means that we are going to make time for regular play and to look for different ways to play individually (both adults and children) and as a family. As Stuart Brown said in his TED talk in March 2009, “I would encourage you all to engage—not in the work-play differential where you set aside time to play—but where your life becomes infused minute-by-minute, hour-by-hour with body, object, social, fantasy, transformational kinds of play, and I think you will have a better and more empowered life.” Posts will be added throughout December, so come back frequently to see what's new. Let’s play!
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